Adult Spotlight - Gary Higgs

When Gary Higgs first became part of the Benedictine community as a student at age 15, he immediately began to blossom. He had previously been enrolled in public school and was doing very well. However, when the school system switched to an inclusive classroom model, it wasn't a good fit for Gary and he began to struggle. His parents, Eugene and Mary Ruth Higgs, met with Sister Jeannette and knew immediately that Benedictine was the right choice for their son.

Thirty years later, Gary is still a beloved member of the Benedictine community. He has lived in Benedictine's group homes since the age of 21. The group home setting fits Gary's personality perfectly: he's friendly and outgoing, and he loves spending time with his roommates. Gary was also able to achieve a greater sense of independence when he moved from his parents' home into the group home. Although it was a struggle at first for Eugene and Mary Ruth to let their son leave the nest, they now know beyond a doubt that they made the right decision. They are thrilled with the care Gary has received and how happy and confident he's become.

Over the years, Eugene and Mary Ruth have been very active in supporting Benedictine. They've hosted pizza parties and other gatherings for Gary and his friends. Eugene dons a Santa suit each Christmas and brings the joy of the holidays to students and adults at Benedictine. The Higgs family has also been regular supporters of the Benedictine Foundation. Mary Ruth says, "We could never give enough to pay back what Benedictine has done for our child. Sister Jeannette always said, 'you pay with love,' and that's what we try to do."